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Only Human: When the Leader Needs Leading

In the unpredictable journey of life, every path we tread is fraught with its own trials and tribulations, moments that test our strength, resilience, and often, our ability to ask for help. For those of us who lead—be it a community, a team, or a family—the idea of vulnerability sometimes feels like a distant, even foreign, concept. Yet, it is in our most challenging moments that we discover the true essence of strength: the courage to be vulnerable.

The Challenge Unfolds

Kidney Conversations, a platform born out of the desire to connect, support, and empower individuals facing kidney disease, has been a beacon of hope and a source of strength for many. As a founder, my journey has always been about uplifting others, sharing knowledge, and fostering a supportive community. Yet, life, in its inherent unpredictability, presented a scenario I hadn't prepared for. My wife, my partner in every sense, faced a sudden health crisis related to her ongoing battle with polycystic kidney disease, leading to her hospitalization. This event turned my role upside down—from being a source of support to facing a profound need for it, yet struggling with the thought of sharing this vulnerability.

Turning Point: Seeking Support

In the whirlwind of emotions and responsibilities, reaching out for support felt like navigating uncharted waters. Yet, the moment I decided to lean on Jonathan Traylor, my partner at Kidney Conversations, marked a pivotal turn. Jonathan, embodying the spirit of partnership and unwavering support, became more than a co-founder; he became a pillar of strength in my moment of need. His response was a testament to the power of community and partnership—a reminder that we are not alone, even in our darkest hours.

The Community's Embrace

The contemplation of sharing my personal crisis with the wider Kidney Conversations community was met with a mix of apprehension and hope. The fear of exposing my vulnerability was counterbalanced by the understanding that the essence of our community was built on mutual support and empathy. This experience illuminated the true strength of the community we had nurtured—a network that could hold each other up, not just in health, but in any of life's adversities.

Lessons in Vulnerability and Strength

This journey through vulnerability to seeking and finding support has been transformative. It underscored a profound lesson: leadership is not about perpetual strength but about the courage to show vulnerability and the wisdom to seek support. This ordeal has reshaped my understanding of what it means to lead and be part of a community. It has taught me that in the fabric of human connection, the threads of vulnerability and strength are interwoven, creating a tapestry richer and more resilient than I had ever imagined.

Fostering a Culture of Support

As we move forward, let us champion a culture where seeking help is not seen as a weakness but as a fundamental aspect of our strength and humanity. I invite you, our community, to share your own stories of vulnerability and support. Let us use our experiences to reinforce the foundation of empathy, understanding, and mutual support upon which Kidney Conversations stands.


In the circle of support, we find the true essence of community and leadership. It is here, in the willingness to both give and receive support, that we discover our collective strength. As we navigate the complexities of life, let us remember that being vulnerable does not diminish our leadership; it enriches it, creating deeper connections and a more compassionate community. In embracing our humanity, we pave the way for a future where no one has to walk their path alone. Together, we are unbreakable. Together, we are only human.

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